Already had to change my profile picture because daughter Zoe said the first one was too scary.  I like looking scary though.  Every hairdresser I've ever had always suggests a hairdo to 'soften' my face.  This usually entails blowdrying my hair so it actually COVERS most of my face.  And I can tell you now, hairdressers don't like it when you say you like looking hard and edgy.